How to save your relationship without losing your friends

How to save your relationships without losing your friends

You talk too much! I use to hear my mother repeatedly say those words to younger women while growing up in South Carolina. And then I heard the legendary hip-hop group Run DMC repeat it in a song “you talk too much, homeboy you never shut up.”

I was a young man growing up very conscious of what I was hearing and seeing in my environment. However, at times being so young I didn’t always understand what was being said within the right context.

As a got older and wiser I understood what my mother meant by the phrase “you talk too much.” I realized how this way of thinking plays a major role into our lives. And if you’re in a committed relationship it takes things to another level.

My experience has taught me certain aspects of our lives must be kept private especially in a relationship. So, today I’m going to reveal seven things your friends don’t need to know about your relationship.

1. Sex. Absolutely off limits! Don’t tell your friends the specific details of your love life. Don’t reveal to them any details of you swinging for the chandeliers or any of the kinky activities you do in the bedroom.

And they REALLY don’t need to know the size of your man’s package. Revealing this kind of information usually opens up a woman’s imagination and she will NEVER look at your partner the same again. As a result, some of your girlfriends will secretly be jealous of you if you unleash the details of your love life.

2. Financial Problems. It’s fine to discuss your personal money problems with your friends. However, you’re crossing the line once you bring your significant other into the conversation.

3. Cheating. If someone cheats on you or has in the past it’s very tacky to tell your friends and family about it. If you’re going to leave him fine. If you’re going to work things out you have to forgive him, however your friends and family won’t if you tell them your personal business.

4. Fights. It’s okay to tell your friends about your relationship and when you had a disagreement. However, never get into the specifics of why it happens unless you’re seeking an honest opinion from someone.

5. Bedroom Problems. Your friends don’t need to know your man can’t rise to the occasion because of the medication he’s taking. They don’t need to know any details of your body parts. And they don’t need to know your man has to pop a blue pill before he comes to bed.

6. Significant Others Problems. Don’t share your significant others problems with anyone. Let your partner share their problems with whomever they choose. It’s not fair for your partner to hear their life story coming from someone else and not straight from the source.

7. Past Relationships. Don’t talk about your partners past with their heartbreaks and disappointing relationships. Let your significant other share stories with your friends. It’s not your place to do so.

Unfortunately, we don’t live in a world anymore where people keep things to themselves. We have social media networks along with people who feel the need to broadcast everything into cyberspace.

And don’t be fooled by shows such as “Sex and The City” with women sitting down at a roundtable discussing issues thinking everything is quiet as kept. The truth is drinking martini’s along with having endless conversations is a great perception to show for television, however in reality things would get awkward around most people.

If you want to know more about relationships and dating I would highly recommend reading “A Chicken’s Guide to Having Women Beg For You: Sex, Lust, & Lies” which can be found at Amazon.com.

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