How to save your marriage after infidelity

How to save your marriage after infidelity

Rise and shine! Its 6 a.m. in the morning and the clock goes off. It’s time for you to get up for work. Within minutes, you take a shower and than proceed to get dress. Once you finish getting dressed you take a peek into the mirror feeling ten-feet-tall-and-bulletproof and smelling fresh like a million bucks ready to make it a good day.

By this time, it’s 7 a.m. and you have thirty minutes left before you hit the road. You can smell what’s cooking downstairs…smelling so, so good. Finally, you rush downstairs to eat breakfast before its time to leave for work.

Okay, times up and breakfast is done. So you kiss your wife goodbye and off to work you go. You get to work and everything is routine, business as usual.

Afterwards, the supervisor says you’re free to leave work early today due to remodeling in the office. As a result, you are excited because instead of getting off work at 5 p.m. you’re leaving at 2 p.m. Now, you’re looking forward to spending the rest of your day with the love of your life.

Finally, it’s 2 p.m. and its time to leave work. On your way home, you decide to stop to the flower shop to buy a dozen of red roses.

You gave the woman a tip in the flower shop for brightening up your day. Now your full speed head home to surprise your wife with red roses.

Your home! The wait is over and it’s time to see your wife. You slowly unlock and crack the door walking into your house. There’s no sign of your wife and you proceed to walk to the bedroom.
how to save your marriage after infidelity

On the way to the bedroom you begin to hear voices of someone else besides your wife. It sounds like a man.

Then you begin to tiptoe towards the bedroom standing at the corner of the door. What you are witnessing is blowing your mind, literally. Another man is in bed with your wife!

Your wife is screaming and moaning making sounds like NEVER before. This man was REALLY giving it to her in a major way and she seems to be enjoying it.

Ten minutes later, you walked into your bedroom and bust them. Your wife was shocked to see you and started crying. And the man was scared as hell and kept saying he was sorry.

You begin to feel the rage within your spirit being unleash. Then you proceed to tell the man and your wife to get your clothes and get out.

This is one of the most embarrassing and disappointing experiences you have ever had to face in your life. Prior to your wife leaving you tell her, “we will talk later.” You REALLY would like to get violent and take your frustrations out on both of them.

However, you didn’t because the man was allowed to come inside your household by your wife. Plus, it’s always a good idea to make decisions in a more logical and productive manner.

And it’s easy to make an irrational decision while in an emotional state of mind. Two days later, you called your wife and meet her at a girlfriend’s house.

You begin to ask questions about what you witnessed and she justified her actions without taking responsibility. And her girlfriend was in the room listening to every word being said which was okay.

Unfortunately, as a man at some point we have to make decisions based on logic and not on emotions. There are two questions you have to ask yourself. Is she going to stay or leave? Do you want her back? The emotional response would be “Hell No!”

It’s not as easy as you think in making these life changing decisions especially if theirs children and family assets involved. And one decision doesn’t apply for every individual or situation. There’s no right or wrong answer here.

In a nutshell, you have to be honest with yourself and look at the situation from a logical point of view. If you want to stay with your wife, you can’t under any circumstance bring up the past or what you witnessed in the bedroom.

If you feel like you can’t forgive her, then the relationship probably won’t move forward. If you can, that’s great because forgiveness is half of the battle.

As a result, your relationship will have a chance to evolve and move forward in the future. If you want to discover more highly advanced tips and tricks of relationships I would highly recommend reading “A Chicken’s Guide to Having Women Beg For You: Sex, Lust, & Lies.”

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